I’m not really big on New Year’s resolutions. They have a bad reputation for having a high rate of failure (you know what I’m talking about). But, I do find that the annual “switching of the calendar” does make me pause and think about both the year behind and the year ahead – and I must confess that I am always thankful for any opportunity for a fresh start.
This year, as I mentally stood in the space between yesterday and tomorrow, I asked myself, “What do I want more of in 2009?” Hmmmm….a big question. But as I reflected on the busyness of the fall and what I felt was lacking during that time, it didn’t take long for the answer to rise to the surface: more quality time with the important people in my life. More conversations over a great cup of java. More dancing around the kitchen with my 3 amazing kids. More initiating get-togethers with couples we don’t see as often as I would like. More dates with my husband of 20 years. More impromptu adventures with crazy friends. More quiet time learning to let God have a say in the conversation. More opportunities to let people know that they bring immeasurable joy to my life.
“Infinitely more important than sharing one's material wealth is sharing the wealth of ourselves—our time and energy, our passion and commitment, and, above all, our love.”—William E. Simon (1927-2000); businessman, former United States Secretary of Treasury.
I welcome your accountability this year as I resolve to “share the wealth of myself” with the people in my life. And I’d love to hear your thoughts and ideas!
~ Wendy
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Wendy; What a great resolve. How would you like to be "held accountable"?
Do you have specific ideas for weekly? monthly?
My husband and I try to go on "date nights" at least monthly. Sometimes they are planned, and sometimes they are spontaneous (the kids are at an age that we can do that now).
And get togethers??? It's hard, we all mean to, say "hey, we should...", wish we did, but it takes work!
Saturday nights do not work well for us, because of ministry responsibilities, and to be honest once Friday night comes I am ready to put my pj's on, put my feet up and watch nothing in particular on TV. But a couple of weeks ago, I extended invitation to 4 friends for a dinner party. I will keep it simple with pasta and salad or something like that, but I know that socially I need the interaction. I won't go over the top, but I want to make it a special evening. I love candles and setting a pretty table, so I think it will be fun!
How can I encourage you this year to give your best gift ~ you?
Patti
Wow Patti! Thank you for sharing your thoughts and extending your support and encouragement....for sharing the wealth of you (smile)
I haven't thought of specific timing or structure but rather desire to keep it more central in my awareness. (I'm pretty good to act on things and get them done if I am simply aware of them) In fact, I have had a spontaneous night out with friends since I wrote this.
The type of accountability I value is a simple "checking in" - something to help KEEP it in my awareness. (out of sight, out of mind is often true for me)
What about you? What's your focus for 2009?
Thanks again for sharing with me. It put a smile on
my face!
Blessings,
Wendy
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